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05 Mar 2014
Striking up a conversation with a girl you don't know can be hard for some guys. But most of the time, a little preparation is all that's required. Getting skilled in making small talk alone can get you lots of new friends and ladies who want to spend time with you.

Don't get left out of your peers, you should at least talk to another soul. Make small talk sexy using conversation escalation whenever you have time.

The key is moderation, even when you know how to make small talk, you can't go full blasts on every girl you meet. If you can make a conversation happen, then you know you can start making small talks. Anything can come up when you're having a small talk with someone. I mean just about anything. The ability for making small talk is a good one to have. Make people like you and get them engaged in a good conversation about anything. 

Getting to know someone for the first time is easily accomplished with a good small talk. The bond you create with a person can easily start with a small talk. The professionals use small talk all the time, too.

Just think of how often it happens. If you want to improve your making small talks then there are some things you can do. It will certainly and surely improve many aspects of your conversations. If you can do what's suggested here,

I'm sure you'll improve greatly. Obviously, the best thing you can to make talking easy is simple talk. Talk to anyone that you came across with like your neighbors, waiters and cashiers.

Practice with anyone

Don't pick any age bracket, just go ahead and talk to that old dude over there. If you happen to meet some tourists, go ahead and talk to them. It's always good to practice with a total stranger
willing to talk to you. Get inspiration from newspapers, cookbooks and magazines of things to talk about.

Read any source of information you can get your hands on. If you watch television, you'll never run out of small talk subjects to bring up when you want. There's the internet where you can read about anything that interest you that might also interest someone.

If you hear something funny or someone told you a good story, keep a note of it. If you've been to many places, it's always good to know where you've been and get them excited. If you want to practice alone, you can use the mirror and talk there about random things. The more varied topics and the more you can talk about the better. Because the more you know, the more you can talk about. The best thing you can do to start is make yourself open for small talk.

You can talk to people every time you're in a line and waiting for your turn. If the situation doesn't seem to allow it, you just have to adapt to it a little. Try hosting a party or going to one if you want to really get it going. Don't force yourself into the conversation with someone, just keep it natural. You should make her feel comfortable with an approachable body language. Remember that you have to keep making eye contact most of the time as you talk to her. You can be excited to talk to her but you can't be too over eager about it. 

Don't be scared

You don't want to scare her away by overwhelming her and leaning in too close.

Know her already? Just say hi and hello as you mention her by name. Being direct works this way and avoid making things complicated for yourself. If you don't know her yet, just introduce yourself and be confident and in control. When you get to know her name, repeat it when you talk to her to make her feel special.

Actually talk to her when you're talking to her. Give her the attention she deserves. Just remember to have some fun when you're talking with her. It's always good to keep it that way as the conversation goes on and the longer it takes. You can make her want to keep talking to you even if what you're talking about is trivial. If you want to get her turned off, then there's the negative side of things.

Make sure your day doesn't interfere with you making small talk with her especially when it's not going too good. When you can't think of anything to say, blurt out a compliment that's true. You can make her feel appreciated when you say something good about her before you get going again.

Keep your ears peeled for something worthy to talk about like common interests. It doesn't have anything special, just something you both shared. It can be something that she can relate to and make a connection with. Remember that anything can lead to something you can talk about. The moment you find something in common with her, keep talking about it.

When that time comes, you can always say something personal to you and make a connection with her. But don't make it too personal just yet if you don't want to freak her out. When you get to talk about yourself, it's only natural that she should talk about herself, too. If you want to know more about her, go ahead and ask her some good questions. If you're gonna ask her something, beware of asking something that's too personal for new friends to know about. Be sure it's fun and light and positive.

Ask open-ended questions about her interests or surroundings. When she's done talking, you can then continue on with another question or just a funny remark about her reply.

But try not to ask too many question to make her feel at ease and comfortable.

Remember you're not interrogating her for a crime, so hold back on some questions a little bit. Give her some room to talk but maintain a proper balance between talking and asking. When she's talking more and more, then you can just think of the next thing to talk about. But best of all, be a better listener. Really listen to what she's really saying and really understand her every word.

Listening in while she's saying something will make you a better conversationalist than anything else. So keep your ears ready for something she says that can open a new line of conversation. Listen carefully and you won't need to do much of the talking yourself.  You can make people keep on talking and talking if you can just listen to them.

Let her talk about what she thinks and you'll have a better conversation going. By the end of the conversation, you'll have known lots of things about her and she about you.


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